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" tHe trUly pAinfuLL gOodbYes aRe tHe oNe tHat nEvEr sAid aNd nEvEr expLaiNed..."

        i really don't get it when someone falls in love and never had the courage to tell it.. on the second thOught maybe there's a lot of reason why...or maybe it depends on the situation...

        situation 1... uhHh its when you fall in love with your bestfriend..       you have two choices.. to let him/her know or to keep it in silence.. pag nalaman nya are you willing to take the risk and to accept that you might loose your best friend? or keep it in silence tapos your going to love him/her in silence nlng... lots of cases like this... mas pinipili nila na to keep in silence nlng,, less painful kz your always on his/her side.. making him feel your everlasting love...pero db mas mskit toh kz he wants you to listen on his story about the person he/she truly loves,, how he/she takes cares of that person.. how hurt he/she is whenever they had a fight.. and you'll come to the point that you'll wish you are the one whom he is loving... if you let him know nmn na u love him,, possible n mawala xa kz he doesnt have the same feelings you have for him,, or same man after a couple of months ur together and you'll realize your not compatible as lovers.. you'll break up and friendships gone...hirap noh.. la kang kalalagyan...

                                      2nd situation is when you fell for someone who is already committed to someone..or you fell for somebody else while your committed to someone else... tsk tsk tsk...this is where third party comes,,, there are person na they let them selves fall for somebody else khit na alam nilng ndi na pwede.. possible na not intentional ang pagfall mo but when you let your self fall eh nanloloko ka na brod.. coz if you really love your partner you'll never have a space to love someone else.. kso tlgang ngyayari yun db.. life is unfair and so love.. one good advice on this.. whatever your decision is be happy on it and make it memorable.. if it doesnt work out then there's no one to blame even urself.. PANINDIGAN MO.. wag ka manghihinayang na nilet go mo ung taong ngmahal sau ng totoo kz ikaw ung ngdecide na ilet go xa...

                               situation 3...you fall for someone you didn't expect you'll fall...yung tipong nobody lng xa sau before,, you didn't even notice his around.. tpos magugulat ka nlng one day pag gising mo you have this   special feeling for him and you cant explain... at first possible na in denial ka kz nga for you his not existing before so why all of a sudden your world exist because of him.. tpos ndi mo msabi kz your both uncertain to whatever you feel for each other pero your friends.. and sometimes you feel that he/she is treating you more than friends but less than lovers... This is what i call Pseudo Relationship… I have already experience this kind of thing… masaya at first but in the end mas malalim ung tama ng pain… para sa mga weak n tulad ko.. it will make you cry a lot of times than having a real affair with someone.. theres no boundaries on this kind of thing pero and daming limitations.. walang bawal pero madami kang indi pwedeng gawin.. labo db… you fall for someone and maybe somehow he/she falls for you to.. un nga lng walang nanligaw, walang singot, walang monthsarry, walang anniversarry.. in short…. NO COMMITMENTS… you are not directly committed to that person ,, meaning you don’t have any rights to hold on.. d ka pwede mgexpect na anjan xa lagi for you,d ka pwede mgselos ndi ka nya jowa,,ndi ka pwede mgdemand, hindi ka pwedeng manumbat at higit sa lahat ndi pwedeng umikot ang mundo mo sa kanya.. kz there’s NO STRINGS ATTACHED…

                     Hays love nga nmn... Madami pang situations na nangyayari when it comes to love.. pero ako isa lng ang lagi kong cnasabi sa sarili ko when im in whatever situation is.. NOTHING IS PERMANENT in this world.. Maybe he loves me so much now as if im his life...but when time comes and he is uncertain on what he feels for me, even if it will hurt me as painful as i cut my risk.. i let him go coz i don't want to be happy inlove but my partner in life in miserable as if he is in hell... stay happy and make every moment special and memorable.. coz you will never know when he/she will be gone... and how important he/she is to you......