sAsSyhEaRt: tWo tiMeR

sAsSyhEaRt: tWo tiMeR: " tWo tImEr.... uhhmm naranasan mo na ba mgtwo time or matwo time? cno nga ba ang madalas gu..."

tWo tiMeR

             tWo tImEr.... uhhmm naranasan mo na ba mgtwo time or matwo time? cno nga ba ang madalas gumagwa nito... girls or boys???

             situation 1: you are into a relationship and you are so devoted to you partner as if he/she is your life.. and you'll never survive without him/her... then one day you met one guy/girl that gave you the sense of adrenaline rush...yung tipong you have never experience it with your partner.. yung tipong kinikilig ka smile pa lng nya..sa una ok lng yun kz makclassify ko pa xa as crush or infatuation... pero kung your making your way to meet that person.. eh mejo iba na un,,, tpos when you'll have a chance to flirt with him you'll grab that chance to flirt with him/her with out thinking wat risk you are taking.. sabi nila ok lng mkipagflirt kz normal yun sa isang tao.. my ksabaihan nga tayo db na "NAKAKASAWA NAMAN KUNG PURO ADOBO LNG ULAM MO,"kaya minsan nattemp tayo na tumikim ng ibang putahe... sa boys its normal kz its their nature to flirt around.. ALL MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS.. at khit ano pa ang ibansag ntin mga girls sa knila,, manloloko, two timer, user or whatever wala din naman sense kz normal sa knila na matemp,, manloko at tumikim ng iba... but im not saying na boys na ang madalas mag two time.. let me finish first ok....

                      2nd situation is when you know that the guy/girl that you are wanting belongs to somebody else... madaming ganito eh... yung tipong mas nachachalenge sila to flirt with someone na my partner na.. yung tipong kabet cla..yung tipong pumapayag cla khit second choice lng cla.. mas nkakachallenge kz to ung tipong khit ipinagbabawal cge k lng ng cge... db nga msarap ang bwal.. sa situation na toh pumapasok ang tinatwag nting THRILL.. yung tipong d kau pwede mgsama in public bka some of his/her friends might see you,, or you'll be the topic sa khit san sulok ng baranggay nyo..

     3rd situation is when you are into a relationship and your not flirting with somebody else... san yung situation d2.. it is when you are trying to be honest to your partner but your heart is lying kz iba ung minamahal nito... physically you belong to your partner pero when we are going to talk about love and your heart.. it belongs to somebody else.. maybe the reason is when they have no choice but to try loving somebody else coz the real person they really love belongs to someone na.. eto ung worst ung ur trying to love someone kz super nadepress ka at broken hearted dahil sa ex mo.. this is wat i call REBOUND.... mas mhirap tong situation na to pra sa partner na totoong ngmamahal.. kz they trying to be somebody else just to meet your expectations, ur qualifications na hinahanap mo dahil gnun ung dating x mo sa sobrang minahal mo.. sometimes we expect for that person to do the same thing sa ur ex did to you.. so madalas ndi nting naaappreciate ung mga bagay na gngawa nila stin just to pleased you.. it will hurt even more kz at the end you'll just realize na ndi tlga xa ung mahal mo and at hindi mo xa kayang mahalin na mas hihigit pa sa pagmamahal mo sa leche mong x na niloko ka lng at pinaiyak... 

i once experienced situations 1 and 3..i was in a rebound relationship,,both broken hearted situation and ung mismong ng rebound sa guy... and it hurt more khit ano pa sa dalawa... masakit ung ipagpilitan mong mahalin ka ng taong sobrang minamahal mo pero never ka naman nging laman ng isip at puso nya,.. ung tipong you are existing because of him but for him your invisible.. all the thing around you has a meaning bec of him and for him its nothing,, you are doing eveything just for him and he doest nothing..at khit anong effort and iexert mo ndi nya appreciated kz ur not the girl he loves... sa kabilang banda... pag ikaw naman ung broken.. nagiging selfish ka.. kz you want him to understand you.. khit na ang gulo gulo na ngsituation nyo.. you dont want to loose him pero your not doing anything to let him have one good reason to stay,, you are taking him for granted despite the fact that all he wanted to do is to love you and to ease your pain.. hayss... unfair ka nga nmn tlga noh heart.. whatever situation ur are into unfair ka palagi... mahirap naman din n mkipagflirt around while you belong to someone else... bkit pano kung umabot sa point na magkaroon ng exta feeling ka sa taong ka flirt mo.. magulat ka nlng na one day when you woke up ndi mo na xa maresist khit alam mo or alam nyo na you both belong to someone else.. ang hirap nito when the day comes na u already realize na you already have fallen for that someone.. and day by day your feelings gone deeper.. tpos you'll decide to let go of him kz alam mo nagiging unfair ka na sa partner mo na walang gnwa kundi magpakaloyal sau at mahalin ka ng todo.. pero everytime na ngttry ka mglet go sobrang hurt ka kz nga napamahal na sau ung tao na un na once nging kalandian mo lng... hayst... all i can say wala naman dapat pagtalunan kung cno ang mas eh.. kz all of us can experience this situations..tao lng tayo eh naaalipin tao ng hearts natin.. nggwa mo mangtwo time kz un ung gustong gawin ng puso mo dahil alam ng puso mo na mgiging masaya ka sa situation na un.. gnun naman tlga at ang puso db,, puro saya lng nmn ang gusto nya ndi nya kayang isipin ung pedeng mgyari na ikakaskit nya,,, kaya nga nsa baba lng xa at nsa taas ang utak kz ndi kaya magisip ng puso ang kaya lng nya...

one good advice nasa sayo un kung itatake mo.. whatever situation you are into.. before mo pakinggan ang utak mo or ang puso mo.. better think and listen kung ano ang tamang ibinubulong ito na makakapagpasaya sau.. dahil sa bandang huli ndi naman importante ang sasabihin ng tao sayo o sa nagawa mo.. ano man ang mangyari sa mging decision mo then let it be... treasure it and learn from it so the next time you'll be on the same situation you will know how to handle it pero pag nsaktan ka ulit with the same situation isa lng ibig sabihin nun... ndi ka natuto... life is to short so enjoy it coz your going to experience the best of life once.....

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sAsSyhEaRt: uNtOLD: "' tHe trUly pAinfuLL gOodbYes aRe tHe oNe tHat nEvEr sAid aNd nEvEr expLaiNed...' i really don't get it whe..."

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" tHe trUly pAinfuLL gOodbYes aRe tHe oNe tHat nEvEr sAid aNd nEvEr expLaiNed..."

        i really don't get it when someone falls in love and never had the courage to tell it.. on the second thOught maybe there's a lot of reason why...or maybe it depends on the situation...

        situation 1... uhHh its when you fall in love with your bestfriend..       you have two choices.. to let him/her know or to keep it in silence.. pag nalaman nya are you willing to take the risk and to accept that you might loose your best friend? or keep it in silence tapos your going to love him/her in silence nlng... lots of cases like this... mas pinipili nila na to keep in silence nlng,, less painful kz your always on his/her side.. making him feel your everlasting love...pero db mas mskit toh kz he wants you to listen on his story about the person he/she truly loves,, how he/she takes cares of that person.. how hurt he/she is whenever they had a fight.. and you'll come to the point that you'll wish you are the one whom he is loving... if you let him know nmn na u love him,, possible n mawala xa kz he doesnt have the same feelings you have for him,, or same man after a couple of months ur together and you'll realize your not compatible as lovers.. you'll break up and friendships gone...hirap noh.. la kang kalalagyan...

                                      2nd situation is when you fell for someone who is already committed to someone..or you fell for somebody else while your committed to someone else... tsk tsk tsk...this is where third party comes,,, there are person na they let them selves fall for somebody else khit na alam nilng ndi na pwede.. possible na not intentional ang pagfall mo but when you let your self fall eh nanloloko ka na brod.. coz if you really love your partner you'll never have a space to love someone else.. kso tlgang ngyayari yun db.. life is unfair and so love.. one good advice on this.. whatever your decision is be happy on it and make it memorable.. if it doesnt work out then there's no one to blame even urself.. PANINDIGAN MO.. wag ka manghihinayang na nilet go mo ung taong ngmahal sau ng totoo kz ikaw ung ngdecide na ilet go xa...

                               situation 3...you fall for someone you didn't expect you'll fall...yung tipong nobody lng xa sau before,, you didn't even notice his around.. tpos magugulat ka nlng one day pag gising mo you have this   special feeling for him and you cant explain... at first possible na in denial ka kz nga for you his not existing before so why all of a sudden your world exist because of him.. tpos ndi mo msabi kz your both uncertain to whatever you feel for each other pero your friends.. and sometimes you feel that he/she is treating you more than friends but less than lovers... This is what i call Pseudo Relationship… I have already experience this kind of thing… masaya at first but in the end mas malalim ung tama ng pain… para sa mga weak n tulad ko.. it will make you cry a lot of times than having a real affair with someone.. theres no boundaries on this kind of thing pero and daming limitations.. walang bawal pero madami kang indi pwedeng gawin.. labo db… you fall for someone and maybe somehow he/she falls for you to.. un nga lng walang nanligaw, walang singot, walang monthsarry, walang anniversarry.. in short…. NO COMMITMENTS… you are not directly committed to that person ,, meaning you don’t have any rights to hold on.. d ka pwede mgexpect na anjan xa lagi for you,d ka pwede mgselos ndi ka nya jowa,,ndi ka pwede mgdemand, hindi ka pwedeng manumbat at higit sa lahat ndi pwedeng umikot ang mundo mo sa kanya.. kz there’s NO STRINGS ATTACHED…

                     Hays love nga nmn... Madami pang situations na nangyayari when it comes to love.. pero ako isa lng ang lagi kong cnasabi sa sarili ko when im in whatever situation is.. NOTHING IS PERMANENT in this world.. Maybe he loves me so much now as if im his life...but when time comes and he is uncertain on what he feels for me, even if it will hurt me as painful as i cut my risk.. i let him go coz i don't want to be happy inlove but my partner in life in miserable as if he is in hell... stay happy and make every moment special and memorable.. coz you will never know when he/she will be gone... and how important he/she is to you......